| Being a single man is fun, most of the time! I | | | | always possible. |
| know that happiness is not something that can be | | | | After all how can you tell the friend sitting next to |
| measured in absolute terms and as such may or | | | | you: "Hey, let's go back to my place and have |
| may not exist completely. All of us single or | | | | some fun"? And even though friends with benefits |
| married have things about our lives and ourselves | | | | seem to be a concept increasing in popularity this |
| that we would love to be able to change, and the | | | | has happened with any one of mine and so we |
| life of a middle age single man is not different. | | | | are all still looking. |
| Of course, optimists tell me that there is a | | | | The other day, as I was checking my emails at |
| difference between being single and being lonely | | | | home I stumbled upon a dating website where |
| and the truth is I meet my fair share of people | | | | encounters of a specific kind were being |
| at work during business meetings, lunches and the | | | | advertised. I had heard about online dating and of |
| likes. So looking through the proverbial half full | | | | course every man has a hidden fantasy of |
| glass, I am definitely not lonely. | | | | belonging to a swinger's club but I had not realized |
| After all, I have made a lot of very good friends | | | | that there were people out there who were just |
| throughout my years as a Miami resident, and I | | | | like me, looking for companionship to explore fun, |
| do get to see these friends socially on a regular | | | | sexuality and more on a strictly non committed |
| basis, at a local restaurant, or a friend's house | | | | fashion. |
| where we I meet lots of other single people, just | | | | And rather then spending time procrastinating |
| like me. | | | | again as to why I should not give this method a |
| For those of us, and even some of the married | | | | try, I decided that I would join one of these online |
| folks out there seeking for fun on the side, adult | | | | adult websites and see what if any thing would |
| dating with partners who want the same is not | | | | develop as a result. |