51 Thoughts on Networking

1. The Federal Bureau of Labor did a study a fewwithout a pen and paper. Sounds dumb, right? It
years back indicating that 70% of all new businessisn't. It's genius. Nobody keeps napkins with
comes from some form of networking. I think it'sscribblings on them.32. Every week, introduce two
higher.2. So, no matter where you go - the Mall,people you know who need to know each
church, out to dinner, the gym - you better haveother.33. Wear your nametag above your
at least five business cards with you.3. And bebreastbone and make sure it's visible from 10
able to give an UNFORGETTABLE personalfeet away. Nobody cares what side of your chest
introduction in 10 seconds, 30 seconds and 6oit's on. Just make it big. And if you don't like
seconds.4. When someone on the phone says,wearing nametags, then you probably don't like
"May I ask who's calling?" get excited. Saypeople knowing who you are, either.34. Oh, and
something unique that makes that person say,it's not who you know - it's who knows you.
"Um, okay...please hold." Be unexpected. Be cool.(Thanks again, Jeffrey Gitomer.)35. And people will
Be memorable.5. Get Google alerts on yourself,like you the minute they figure out how much
your company, your area of expertise and yourthey ARE like you.36. Fear not to entertain
competition. If you don't know what a Googlestrangers for by so doing some may have
alert is, just Google it.6. Networking isn't selling,entertained angels unaware. (Hebrews, 13:2)37. If
marketing or cold calling. It's the development andyou don't have get it. It's ten bucks.38. Find local
maintenance of mutually valuable relationships.professionals with whom you share common
Don't mix those things up.7. The most importantinterests, customers, ideas and products.
four letters in the word NETWORKING areIntroduce yourself to them, get together, share
W-O-R-K, because that's exactly what it takes.8.ideas and find ways to help each other.39. Form a
If you give your business card to somebody andmastermind group. No more than four people.
they don't reply, "Hey, cool card!" get a new card.Meet regularly to set goals, keep each other
(Thank you, Jeffrey Gitomer.)9. When attendingaccountable and brainstorm.40. Also, set your own
networking events, come early. Check out thenetworking goals each month for:o Events to
nametags. See if you know anybody, or findattend
people you'd like to meet.10. Sit in the back soo People to meet
you can scan the room for specific people you'do Emails to write
like to connect with.11. Email articles of interest,o Calls to make
links or other cool stuff OF VALUE (not spam) too Articles/physical mail to send41. Go onto
people you've met.12. Publish a newsletter orGoogle and type in "articles on networking." Read
ezine. Interview people from your network andon!42. Speaking of Google, Google yourself
feature them as experts. They will takeregularly. Find out what people are saying about
ownership of their inclusion and spread thatyou. If you don't show up, you're in trouble.43. If
publication to everyone they know.13. Spend anyou think you don't need to network, you right.
hour a week reading and commenting on otherYou don't need to network: you MUST
people's blogs. If you don't know what a blog is,network!44. And stop calling it networking. Ignore
you're in trouble.14. When you read an article youthe title of this post. I only used that word in the
like, email the author. Tell him what you likedtitle because my client made me. Networking - as
about it and introduce yourself. He'll usually writea word - is tired and old and cliché and it
back.15. Have an awesome email signature thatmakes people think you're throwing around a
gives people a reason to click over to yourbunch of cards trying to sell, sell, sell. No. All you're
website. Just be careful not to have TOO muchdoing is making friends. Not schmoozing, mingling
information included.16. Get involved with socialor any of those stupid catch phrases. You're
networking sites like LinkdIn, MySpace andmaking friends. That's it. Friends. Make them
Squidoo.17. Remember that networking doesn'tevery day.45. If you think you suck at
have to be in person. The Internet is a greatnetworking, don't worry. You're not alone. But also
place to connect with people just like you! It'sremember that anyone can develop their
called Internetworking. (Yep, I made that wordnetworking skills. That's right, skills. Because it's not
up.)18. Make your own words up. It's really fun.19.something you're born with or just plain "good at."
Have business lunches at least once a week.20.Anyone can do it effectively. You simply need:o
Attend local events once a month.21. Figure outTo develop attitude of approachability
where your target market hangs out (online ando To read books on the subject
offline). Then hang out there.22. Or, create youro To practice46. So, when strangers ask, "How
own regular "business hangout," like a copy orare you?" don't say fine. You're not fine. Nobody's
coffee shop where you can regularly be foundfine. Give a real answer that's memorable and
working, networking, reading or connecting withmagnetic. I suggest, "Business is kicking ass!" or
other professionals.23. Talk to everybody. Don't"Everything is beautiful!"47. Come to every
sell them; don't probe them, just make friends.networking event with three great questions
Make friends with everybody. Because people buyready to go. Be sure they begin with, "What's the
people first.24. Take volunteer positions withone thing?" "What's your favorite?" and "What
organizations that are relevant to your industry.was the best part about?"48. When someone
Be a visible leader to whom others can come forasks where you're from, don't just say "Austin."
help.25. Every time you meet someone, write theUse the H.O.T technique: "Oh, I'm from Austin,
letters HICH on their business card: how I canhome of the best college football team in the
help. Then think of five ways to do so.26. Go tocountry." Get creative. Get unique. Watch what
Borders and spend one day a month readinghappens.49. Put your person before your
books on networking, interpersonal communicationprofession. Your personality before your position.
and marketing. I highly recommend The Power ofYour individual before your industry.50. Don't be
Approachability and How to be That Guy. (I heardifferent - be unique. Don't be friendly - be
the author is super cool.)27. Publish articles or aapproachable. And don't be memorable - be
blog or both based around your expertise. Useunforgettable.51. Think about the last five
titles such as "Top Ten Ways," "Essential"luckiest" business contacts you encountered.
Elements" and "Success Secrets," that grab theFigure out what you did right, realize that there IS
reader's attention. Publish them on and Be funny,NO SUCH THING AS LUCK, then repeat as often
but don't tell jokes.29. Discover the CPI, oras possible.© 2006 All Rights Reserved.Scott
Common Point of Interest with everyone youGinsberg, aka "The Nametag Guy," is the author
meet.30. Carry blank business cards with you inof three books and a professional speaker who
case someone forgot theirs. They'll thank you forhelps people maximize approachability, become
saving their butt!31. Never leave the houseunforgettable and make a name for themselves.